sreya-ism : the judgement calls and did you knows!

A spin off from some phone calls and loads of laughter from good friends :)
Here goes:
Allow people to go ahead and judge you , whisper all they think they know about you and all the " did you know?..." You'll be surprised how much they know about you which even you are unaware of ;)
It means you have made some impact to be the cause of playing on their mind and life:)
Be happy to add that much needed colour to their days. There will be people who feel they know you but they don't even understand your existence. Don't waste your effort to help them evolve.
Grow duck skin. Learn to let it all roll off. Move on with positive souls and your higher purpose. Giving time to negativity is being ungrateful to all that the Creator had planned for you.
Remember also to have a good laugh ,continue following your goals without being affected. You are on a chosen path and hurdles, puddles and potholes are just going to make it more worth your while! Those that are meant to stay will, those that were for fair weather would not offer you the shelter anyway, so why miss them ? They come with agendas of money, power, sex or limelight. Not to learn, not to share.
Avoid avoid avoid the fickle and confused. They will shred your mental peace. The fence sitters hardly ever change. The wind affects them too much!
Be happy and proud that all those who left you can look back and gleam that they knew you at some point of your journey :) Feel blessed with those who have not stopped believing in you in spite it all. The number of these people maybe much smaller than those who don't. Value quality over quantity.
Change comes in myriad ways and never feel bad if people or circumstances change