Giving up...giving in...or giving it another go?

There are moments in life I feel its time to give up.

The constant struggles at times get to each of us am sure...the struggle of day to day existence, the daily worries of life and living and all the hurdles...but just as much the feeling of "all is lost" sucks me up at times I guess the same negative energy somewhere deep within converts into extreme positives and shouts out loud " what? Give up? Are you out of your mind?"

Yes we never get out of life alive anyway so why give up ?

As I go through the pits and falls, of people taking me for a ride at times, knowing some relationships are never meant to last, some friendships are only for a fleeting moment and are meant to be enjoyed just for the moments...the same feeling also surprisingly instills the belief that the pits and falls are only to help me rise, the rides are lessons well learnt and the relationships however fleeting may at times may not be so.

The dualities of life and how each moment teaches us exact opposites to show the vibrancy of life and living...the confusions actually aren't confusions...we create them ourselves...because we make ourselves believe in norms and we strive to conform. We keep believing in the "what right and to be done" rather than " what can be done because it makes us happy"

We at times are scared to break conventions and keep dwelling in our prisons when we rather be free...we live in relationships that have long died a natural death...and suffocate and feel the lows...rather than breaking free and getting a fresh lease of life...we continue to toe the line because we fool ourselves to think it matters to society...

What we fail to realise is that social memory is shortlived and noone really cares...everyone is more bothered about their own lives rather than someone elses...some tongues will wag but after a certain moment they all stop...and what is new becomes the accepted...

We all need to start living for what makes us happy and breathe...because each day lived is one day shorter than the full span...and we never know if we will ever be back anyway!