The Truth about Lies

My friends who really know me...and I can say just a handful do...would know one thing about me for sure...I am a tough one no matter what life hands down...I have seen enough ( yes I feel I have) and I have stood fast with integrity and honesty. Thats where, no matter what life hands out I can still wake up, look myself in the eye and say " I love you gorgeous!"

Am not being vain about looks when I say gorgeous...what am proud of is I have a clear conscience.. because no matter what I NEVER lie...

When I love, trust and care for someone I do that with honesty and complete faith in the universe. I strongly believe what you give comes back...

Yes I have got a lot of hurt back... because I feel somewhere in my own blunt ways I may have hurt someone somewhere...but I still believe its better to hurt someone with the truth than cover up with falsehood and disrespect the relationship.

When I give in love...in any form...I give my whole I give my soul...and I only hope the other respects the same.

Because the greatest truth about me is...I can never ever be myself with a person who has lied to me...I do forgive and perhaps give only a second chance. Why? Well not everyone knows the truth, about what I feel about lies at the first instance...so a second chance is a must...a done "deal"....but thats the only seal...break the deal once...lose me forever...

I believe there is no white lie...a lie is lie..and each of us is built with the capacity to handle truth...we spoil the basic mettle of capabilities, strength and self worth in another person with even one lie...we destroy trust forever...because no matter what a lie can NEVER benefit.

Think of one time that you have lied...those who are reading this...did you feel good about it? Honestly?

Sometimes we dont have the courage to say the truth...thats ok...then dont say it...its not escapism...its being honest and brave enough to actually own up to the fact that you cant do something...but lying? well that's cowardice and escapism for sure...

So lets atleast be honest and truthful to ourselves and live up to that image in the mirror we see every morning...and be able to meet that person in the eye and say... " I am me. I am proud to be me. Because I know for sure am true to the core...what I do I know I do because I do with a pure heart and my full soul...to make myself happy and live life"

Lets not deny ourselves the truth the universe wants us to see...